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Love is like planting a garden. That
sounds pretty corny (no pun
intended), but the simile makes sense.
You can’t just sit in a lounge chair and
watch your plants start to grow — it
takes effort. Otherwise, the ground
dries out and weeds shoots up to
choke your garden to death. Love is
the same way — it takes purposeful
and intelligent action to keep it alive.
To make sure your man’s love will
never fizzle out, pay attention to these
nine signs:1. He sings to you
OK, so it doesn’t to be singing. Maybe
he braids your hair, hides notes all
over the house or paints your
fingernails. The point is that he makes
you feel special, even if it means
getting out of his comfort zone (or his
areas of expertise). The only thing he
wants in return is seeing your face
light up.
2 . He kisses you softly
How a man kisses you should reveal a
lot about how he really feels about
you. Men who rush in for a full-on
facial kissing attack are a dime a
dozen. But you can bet that if your
man purposefully kisses you softly it’s
because he’s savoring every moment
of the experience. He’s attracted to
you, but he’s seeking much more than
physical gratification. Soft, slow kisses
express self-control and promote a
deeper, more emotional connection
than the more common and more
aggressive form of kissing.
3. He still dates you
Whether you’ve been together for one
year or 40 years, if he still takes you
on dates it’s because he’s interested in
deepening your relationship. He’s
interested in learning about you. It’s
corny, but his love for you is
continuously flowing river, not a
stagnant pool.
4. He changes without needing to be
asked to change
If your man is serious about his
feelings for you, he’ll to change for
you. He’ll want to be the man you
deserve and he’ll recognize that.
While you may love him, he’s still not
good enough for you. He’ll spend his
life constantly refining his habits,
desires and actions to become the best
version of himself, for you.
5. He goes to the mall with you
Wow, if he’s willing to go shopping
for clothes with you, he’s a keeper. A
lot of men avoid clothes shopping like
the plague. If he’s willing to walk
around every rack with you (multiple
times) then stand outside the dressing
room for an hour, you must be one
incredible girl. He may not love
shopping, but he just wants to spend
time with you, so he comes along.
When you’re happy and excited, so is
6. He occasionally does your dishes
He doesn’t have to do little acts of
service like that. If a man has already
won a woman’s heart it’s very easy to
fall into an Adam Pontipee sort of
attitude: “what do I need manners
for? I already got me a wife.”
A man truly loves you if he goes the
extra mile to take care of what you
would normally have to worry about.
He’s already doing his fair share of
the housework but wants to lighten
your load because he’s completely
7. He looks at you when you’re
It means he’s actually listening to
you. This is Relationships 101 stuff, so
if he’s not looking at you when you’re
talking, there’s an issue. If he’s
listening he’s not going to be
distracted by his phone, that girl
jogging by or that caterpillar inching
The only exception to this rule is if
he’s driving. Keep his eyes on the
8. He asks you more than yes/no
This point goes along with listening. If
he’s listening while you’re talking,
hopefully it’s going to turn into a
meaningful conversation, instead of
just obligatory conversation fillers.
If he asks you open-ended questions
(not just basic “yes” or “no”
responses) it shows a different level
of interest in you. He wants to know
your thoughts and feelings. He wants
to know your opinions. He wants to
know the real .

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