Jabez was more honourable than his brethren: and his mother called his name Jabez, saying, Because I bare him with sorrow. And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that thou wouldest bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast, and that thine hand might be with me, and that thou wouldest keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me! And God granted him that which he requested._
That's the key after dissatisfaction and envisioning of a better life...
HEART FELT PRAYER. Hannah cried to God. She wasn't comfortable again with the barrenness and the sympathetic love of her husband. She was tired of going to church for religious sake. To her it was time to take hold of her expectation. It's not time to be looking at the dressing of people, checking the semantics of the preacher, criticising, and arguing over religious fables. It wasn't time to seek popular opinion or regard what people will say - as far as she was concerned, it's destiny moment. Its time to stop comparing yourself with another person or stop criticising another person's success! Its hightime you worked out your own future, destiny, relationship, marriage, business, career, spiritual life etc. Get personal with God in your dissatisfaction.
*Action point: Dissatisfaction offers you the opportunity to get out of life prison through prayer. Any believer who won't pray is playing with life. And a man who can't pray is a man who will sparingly win the battles of life or experience a breaking forth. And the best way to pray is to start praying. Cry out to God, no more pretense...* Isaiah 49 and 50