Yes, the things that makes you angry or sad, are not necessarily the things people did or said too you. It’s that you refuse to let it go! When you swear never to forgive or forget what people did to you, you are indirectly trapping your self. There is a quote that says “a wise man makes haste to forgive because he knows the true value of time and wouldn’t allow it waste on “ununnecessary” pain “
Yeah being unforgiving is truly an unnecessary pain, cos it’s like carrying a big bag of heavy stones, dragging it all along and all alone.
Forgiveness works wonders. It gives you the peace of mind that even riches can not afford. It brings you out from the “cave of misery” sets you free like a bird and increases your wings to soar higher.
Some people offends us without asking for forgiveness, or even recognizing their mistakes. Forgive them not actually because they deserve it, but because you deserve to be happy! “he who keeps looking behind will never go forward”
Forgive because you deserve to move forward. even When there is no reason to, but for the single reason that you also offends your Heavenly Father everyday should give you the ability to do so.