Hello Zinnystar, compliments of the day. My name is Chris (surname witheld for obvious reasons) am writing from one of the states in the eastern part of the country.
My story is this: I currently base abroad in one of the good countrys abroad, prior to my travel, things were very difficult for me. As I was already out of university though with a good grade yet it was difficult to secure any reasonable employment in the country.
I started nursing this plan to travel abroad for a greener pasture but there was another obstacle.... The financial weight of the project.
I was in a relationship, a very serious one. I and my girlfriend truely love each other. We have
gone through thick and thin together. When I disclosed this idea of traveling out to her she was at first sceptical about it.her. reason was that she would really feel lonely when I eventually leaves.
But as time went on I was able to convince her to see reasons with me. Which she eventually accepted. The money required for my travel was beyond the financial capacity of my parents. My girl was the only hope I had and she actually surprised me with the help of her family she was able to provide all the money required. I was very happy and greatful which made me vow to pay this back In a big way.
To cut the long story short, this is about two and half years since the incident. I have made alot of money now and am back to the country. But on my arrival I learnt that my girl had been sleeping around with different men. I was more shocked when I learnt my guy was even among the men who slept with her.
This really breaks my heart cause I truly love her. Am confused here if I should go ahead and marry her. But I fear so much how am going to live the rest of my life with someone I know I can't trust again. I just want to have a peaceful marriage.
Plz kindly reply.